How to Use a Vibrator For the First Time & Enjoy Blissful Orgasms

You are about to embark on what is arguably the most pleasurable experience of your life! That is, using a vibrator! 

For many, achieving orgasm is one of those small pleasures in life that bring us immense happiness. And actually, climaxing on the regular has a slew of mental and physical health benefits! But let’s paint a picture…

Have you ever had an orgasm? Do you remember your very first big O? Did it feel like you were floating on white fluffy clouds, staring into the sky that was filled with rainbows and unicorns? Well, your orgasms are about to get a whole lot sexier! 

Cue the vibrator! 

This magical pleasure product was made solely for your sexual bliss. It’s like an erotic helper that merely enhances your experience, and assists you in getting the very best satisfaction during your play time. 

But perhaps you’ve never used a vibrator before! Maybe you’re apprehensive or nervous to give it a go? No need to fear! We’re about to give you all the information you need so that you can orgasm with a vibrator in no time!

What is a Vibrator?

A vibrator is a sex toy that’s been created to bring about sexual stimulation. But it wasn’t always so! Did you know that vibrators were first used in doctor’s offices to treat women with hysteria? 

Back in the day, pre 20th century, women were shunned for even daydreaming about sexual desire. Their main role was to serve their husband like a dutiful wife with a smile on their face. 

Of course, all this resulted in women feeling sexually frustrated, lining up at the doctor’s office complaining of anxiety, restlessness, erotic fantasies, and “wetness between the legs”. 

The solution? Horseback riding (yes, really!), and then later, using the electromechanical vibrator, which the doctors themselves would use on their female patients. 

Soon enough however, women began buying these “magic wands” (which were marketed as “personal massagers”) for themselves, making their doctor’s visit fewer and far between! And even today, the magic wand is still perhaps the most popular kind of vibrator. 

Since then, the vibrator has evolved tremendously, and has come a long way in terms of being socially acceptable. In fact, the stigma attached to women’s pleasure has diminished considerably. Yay for women empowerment!

The Best Way to Use a Vibrator

For beginners, the best way to use a vibrator is to do a bit of research. Take the time to get to know your body. What are your likes? How do you receive the most sexual satisfaction? Do you feel any sensitivity? Or do you prefer more pressure and targeted stimulation? And then go from there. 

You see, if you find that you get your best orgasms via clitoral stimulation, then a clitoral sex toy may be the best option for your first vibrator. 

The magic wand is a great tool for overall, less pin-pointed stimulation, while things like clitoral suction toys are more intense for targeted play. 

Or, if you prefer internal stimulation, like during penetrative sex or fingering, then spoil yourself with a G-spot vibrator. 

Many of these toys have different vibrational speeds and pulsations, so you can pick and choose until you’re thoroughly satisfied.

But remember: a vibrator isn’t just a sex toy for women. There are tons of vibrators for men too, such as prostate massagers, male masturbators, and cock rings, as well as unisex vibrators, like butt plugs or anal beads.

Once you’ve got your pleasure product in-hand, you’ll soon learn the best way to use a vibrator so that it brings you all the rainbows and unicorns.

Using a Vibrator for the First Time

So, you want to know how to masturbate with a vibrator? Truthfully, using a vibrator for the first time can be overwhelming. You’ll surely feel a new kind of jolt that’s exciting but maybe strange. 

So we advise that you start off slow, and work your way up to new ways to enjoy your vibrator.  We suggest that you:

• Start over your underwear: allow your underwear to be a barrier of some sorts, just in case the vibrations are too strong or intimidating.
• Labia love: Did you know that your clitoris is a lot bigger than what we see? It’s actually a root-like structure that runs inside the body, down the labia. By caressing and targeting your labia, you can give yourself a new kind of sensation as you stimulate your clit.
• It’s all in the tease: give yourself the time and space to explore your new sex toy. Instead of going for gold, see how it feels on other parts of the body. Perhaps on your nipples, against your skin, the perineum, or experience a rimming sensation around the rim of the anus.
• Anal play: if you’re using your first anal vibrator, remember to take things super slow and to use a lot of lube! Before any penetration, get yourself comfortable, aroused, and use your vibrator to tease other parts of the body before attempting to insert it. 

How to Orgasm with a Vibrator

There is no one-size-fits-all when it comes to how to orgasm with a vibrator. This is something everyone needs to experiment with themselves. 

What we can say however is that a vibrator orgasm can be entirely sensual and euphoric! We suggest that you:

• Experiment with the different vibration intensities
• Experiment with the different pulsation settings
• Try different angles
• Try different pressures
• Try different positions, for example: on your back, on your stomach, riding the toy etc.
• Tap into your five senses to experience an all-over-body orgasm
• Choose a medium that enhances your arousal, like an erotic story, porn, or sexy music
• Use candles, incense, or sensual perfume to create a smell that’s arousing for you

Use one or more of these suggestions, and be patient with yourself while you learn how to have an orgasm with a vibrator. If you can't orgasm with vibrator your first few times, that’s okay! 

The process is all about being more in-tune with yourself, your body, and your sexuality. 

You’ll soon begin to know what feels good, which will inevitably lead to a blissful vibrator orgasm.

Useful Vibrator Techniques

There are so many fantastical ways in which you can use your vibrator! The fun part is trying new vibrator techniques, and finding the most tantalising experience. 

We recommend these vibrator techniques:

• Go old-school: sitting or lying on the back, and allowing your hand to create magic
• Flip it over: Lay on your stomach, face down, and place the vibrator underneath you so that you can grind on it.
• Go for targeted pleasure: Try direct clitoral stimulation by moving in circles, up and down, or side to side, after teasing yourself sensually beforehand.
• Couple up: You could use a clitoral vibrator or G-spot vibrator with a partner during foreplay. Have your partner give you oral sex (or vice versa), while your toy stimulates you at the same time. 
• Enjoy couples play with vibrator sex toys: there are several vibrators that are made for couples play, such as vibrators that are inserted into the vagina or the anus, and enjoyed during penetration.
• Experience a blended orgasm: Give dual stimulation a go with vibrator sex toys that target both the clitoris and the G-spot at the same time, resulting in a blended orgasm.
• Use your vibrator as a neck massager: You can use your vibrator to get yourself warmed up beforehand by using it as a neck or muscle massager. This will not only relax you, but will stimulate blood flow, which could result in stronger orgasms.
• Try edging: edging is a technique whereby, when you get close to climax, you remove stimulation and delay the orgasm. Oftentimes, this leads to bigger and better orgasms.

8 Vibrator Tricks and Tips

For good measure, here are 8 vibrator tricks and tips that’ll enhance your pleasure while keeping you safe, happy, and healthy.

1. Lube!

Lubricant is always your friend, no matter what kind of sexual adventure you’re on. Lube is especially helpful for women who experience vaginal dryness, as it may remove any discomfort during penetration. It’s also a super handy sexual wellness product for external toys as it’ll give your play time an extra smooth glide, and possibly even more pleasure.

Lube is also a must for those who engage in anal play, as the anus doesn’t produce natural lubrication.

2. Cleaning

Whichever vibrator you choose, cleaning your sex toy is imperative! Take note of what kind of material your pleasure product is made of, which will give you an indication as to how to clean it. 

Be aware that porous sex toys run the risk of forming bacteria and mold if not cleaned, so it’s super important to clean porous sex toys after every use.

You could also invest in a sex toy cleaner to give your vibrator that extra shine, and a thorough clean.

3. Waterproof?

Some vibrators are waterproof, and that’s a saucy hint that it can be enjoyed in the shower, bathtub, hottub…. or any body of water! 

If your sex toy is not waterproof, or only slightly waterproof, don’t submerge it in water!

4. Online Shopping vs. In-Person Shopping

Buying a vibrator in-person can be great, because you’ll have the opportunity to talk to a sales assistant. 

On the other hand, when you choose to buy a vibrator online, you’ll be able to browse all the vibrators at your own pace, and you’ll have the added luxury of reading all of the online reviews.

5. Body-Safe Material

Make sure your vibrator is made of body-safe material, as this will be the most friendly and healthy to use. 

6. Remote-Control Fun

If you’re interested in having hands-free fun, or you want to spice things up with a partner, you could invest in a remote-controlled vibrator. 

In this way, you or your partner can take the reins, creating even more lustful and sexual experiences together.

7. Rechargeable or Batteries?

Some vibrators are rechargeable, and some require batteries. Take note of this when you’re ready to buy your first vibrator, so you can prepare accordingly.

8. Magic Pain Reliever

Did you know that when we climax, endorphins (happy hormones) and oxytocin (love hormone) is released? 

These hormones are fast-acting (yet short-lived) pain relievers, which could be a god-sent for those who experience painful cramps during that time of the month.

Are you ready to masturbate with a vibrator? With these vibrator tricks and tips, and advice on the best way to use a vibrator, we’re certain that you’ll rock your first pleasure product, and enjoy vibrator orgasms by the dozen! Enjoy!