That's the guarantee made by Victoria Milan, the hook-up site for married and attached men and women seeking an affair.
According to a new survey carried out on 6,214 extramarital hook-up site users, 8 in 10 men are more attracted to women who are unfaithful to their partners, with 4 in 5 stating that they would prefer the woman to have had another affair beforehand. Moreover, in a previous survey, this time on single female users (28.03% of subscribers), the women interviewed admitted to wanting an affair with a married man (obviously…otherwise why would they be on Victoria Milan?)
8 in 10 men are more attracted to women who are unfaithful to their partners
The reasons behind these preferences and choices vary considerably. With regard to the men surveyed, 27% admitted that unfaithful women seemed more fun, with 25% stating that they enjoy sex more. As for the women, 17% like the excitement of being with a married man and 12% feel they have more experience and are more trustworthy, which excites them.
Women: 7% like the excitement of being with a married man and 12% feel they have more experience and are more trustworthy.
Bijoux Indiscrets asked 3 men and 3 women between the ages of 25 and 40 about their experiences and preferences in the field of infidelity, and the results are as follows (their names have been changed to protect their identities).
Although they took place many years ago, when I think about my little adventures in the world of infidelity, I always went for girls that had a boyfriend because, first of all, you're both in the same boat and the guilt is shared, and secondly, the secret is much easier to keep if you've both got something to lose.
Although I've never hooked up with a married man, I've certainly fantasised about it. In my head he's like George Clooney, a silver fox who's up for a good time. It really turns me on!
I guess it's a question of logistics. You both face the same difficulties: problems with your schedules, not wanting to be called at strange times or to be seen in public with a woman that's not your wife… Also, you make sure it's just sex, with no pressure or love involved.
Oh come on, who hasn't wanted a taste of the forbidden fruit? Well, that's what a married man is in my head and, yes, I'm truly sorry to all the wives out there, but I've done it and I'll do it again.
If you think about it logically, a married woman is in the same situation as a married man. From a more subjective point of view, well… he probably knows what he wants and isn't afraid to ask: a woman who knows how to let her hair down and who'll show you a good time!
I was one of those girls who thought she'd never dare to get with a married man, but when the subject in question is benefiting half the population, well… you just don't feel as guilty and you join in. If everyone has had their piece of the pie, why can't I do the same?
Ashley Madison, Victoria Milan, Gleeden, Bookioo… The reality is that there are more and more sites available and, as such, more people signing up for an extramarital affair. Do you think fidelity has become less important or is it all just a lot easier now?