How to use a vibrator

Bullet vibrators are typically intended for pinpointed pleasure to a specific area. These vibrators are usually used externally, but that does not mean they cannot be used in different areas.

We recommend partnering your toy with a water-based lubricant, something like our finger play lubricant to maximize comfort and pleasure. The best thing about a bullet is its size, because it’s so small and discrete it allows for so many more ways to play. 

You can use a bullet to spice up a massage by placing it on specific erogenous zones or spice up oral sex by placing the bullet under the jaw/chin to make your mouth vibrate. 

Bullets are also incredible ways to take your favorite sex position to the next level, our favorite example is an enhanced doggy style position. Where you get in doggy style and use the bullet to stimulate the clitoris!

Overall, bullets are great first toys or additions to the collection because they are versatile and powerful!

1. Apply a water-based lubricant.
2. Start at a low setting.
3. Place the toy on the vulva, and gently glide it along the anatomy.
4. Try making circles or applying pressure.
5. Move to the clitoris and enjoy.

Of our listed bullets, our favorite is the vibrating diamond, because of the shape and look. Not only is this toy gorgeous but in design, it has the most pinpointed tip, that centralizes the vibrations making them more intense. Another fun aspect is Twenty-One makes for a very comfortable seat, especially when you are working from home. 

A G-spot vibrator is easily recognizable by its shape, that being a C-curve. Usually, G-spot vibrators have a hard C-curve, but that is not always the case. These vibrators are usually intended for internal use, but like any toy, it depends on your pleasure and how you want to play. Partner your toy with some lubricant, like our Hyaluronic Acid lubricant, for long lasting fun. 

G-spot vibrators are a great way to discover what angles and positions drive you wild. These vibes are fantastic tools if you are trying to squirt! That is because the C-curve rubs against and stimulates the erectile tissue on the superior wall of the vagina. 

This pulling motion partnered with the pressure from the shape makes for intense orgasms that often leads to squirting. It is great to start slow, using them once you are already turned on. 

Try starting with your bullet or with your G-spot toy on the outside of your body. You can stimulate your nipples, breasts, inner thighs, clitoris, and any other partner of the body. 

Once you feel your arousal building, apply lubricant to the vulva, vagina and the toy itself; remember, the wetter, the better! Then begin slowly and explore different angles and pressures until you find exactly what you love. 

1. Apply lube.
2. Start with a bullet or fingers.
3. Apply more lube to your toy and vagina.
4. Start slow, bringing the toy inside and explore patterns and vibrations.
5. For added pleasure try different positions that allow you to apply gentle pressure to the superior wall of the vagina (Sitting up with legs open or froggy legged position).

 A special shout to Lelo’s Enigma as this dual-action G-spot toy joins suction technology with the stimulating shape of the G-spot toys.

This allows for dual action pleasure, that will intensify orgasms! Be aware, suction toys require a lot of lube and they need time for finding the right placement on the clitoris. You may need to try the toy a few times before you get it but enjoy the journey! 

Crystal dildos are powerful tools in sexual healing and pleasure. This is because these toys combine temperature, weight and spiritual properties found in crystals to enhance pleasure and sexual enjoyment. 

Each dildo is made of a crystal specific to targeting aspects of sexuality, for example, rose quartz has healing properties especially related to the heart and love. 

These toys are meant for internal use, specifically the vagina. Crystal dildos such as these partner well with any lubricant, but just be intentional where you place the lube so you do not lose your grip. Another tip would be to partner this product with a stimulating serum or liquid vibrator if you want to up the intensity. 

The biggest benefit if you are not one for crystals is the temperature and weight of the toy. Because crystals keep cool, this creates a contrast between your body and the toy, which can be very stimulating. If you prefer a body temperature toy, just place the crystal in warm water for some time, dry, and then use. 

While the weight adds an extra layer to the experience and can enhance the fantasy if you are thinking of someone while you use the toy. 

1. Ground yourself, take a few deep breaths
2. Be present
3. Apply lube and/or a stimulating gel
4. Start with your fingers, to connect with your body then move to the toy
5. Try using the toy hands free, use your pillows to hold your crystal dildo in place and let your hands linger across your body

This is an excellent tool for sexual manifestation and sex magic. Not only do orgasms have the power to enhance our mood but they can allow us to unlock our potential when it comes to sex or happiness. Crystal dildos have the power not only to heal, but to enhance your own sexual magic and potential. 

are very powerful vibes, this is because they are usually with a plug, meaning they can draw a greater source of power for the toy. 

As mentioned, they are typically used externally, but nowadays many companies have “caps” that you place over the toy that allow you to adapt your toy to your needs. These caps come in shapes that allow you to use your wand for G-spot stimulation, more focused clitoral stimulation and even a wing shape to massage penises! Making the wand a great option for partnered pleasure and exploration. 

There is even sex furniture that has wand “holds” so you can go hands free!! 

The best way to use your wand is creatively, with lots of lube and remember to start low. If you start high, then you run the risk of desensitizing yourself to the intensity temporarily. 

1. Start with a low setting.
2. Apply some lube or stimulating gel.
3. Let the wand take care of the rest, or a partner if you are into that.

Fun fact, some sex toys are app controlled, allowing for distance play, partnered play, or better functionality! Dodson by Vibio does all of that, making it the perfect toy to introduce if your partner is on the fence about toys or if you find yourself in a distance situation. Plus, Dodson comes with a library of erotic stories that help create the mood!

Suction toys have quickly risen to popularity after their introduction in the past decade! It’s no wonder these powerful toys offer powerful and unique sensations that allow for even more clitoral pleasure, but did you know these toys can be used on the nipples as well? This is an excellent way to incorporate foreplay in your masturbation routine. 

Suction toys are not what I would recommend for beginners, and this is because you need lots of lube and patience. To start, you should try to be aroused first, this is because when we are turned on the clitoris reveals more of itself and swells, allowing for a better suction and sensation. 

Try starting with a bullet to build the pleasure, and after about 5-10 minutes apply lots of lube and then introduce your suction toy. Start at the lowest setting until you are comfortable and have “sealed” your clitoris into the toy. 

Often this is a two-handed job that requires some movement and intentional placement, but do not get discouraged. Take your time and try using your suction toy around your vulva while you gauge the intensities. Once you have found the pleasurable position you can try playing with the intensities. 

Also, be mindful of your breathing, slow and controlled breath with make for a faster, and more intense orgasm. 

1. Start with lube and a toy/fingers.
2. Once turned on, use one hand to pull back the vulva and the other to move the mouth of the toy in place, starting on a low-setting.
3. Adjust and create a seal between your clitoris and the toy.
4. Enjoy.

Suction toys are great bath partners, something about the water creates a unique pleasure experience. It’s also important to note, each brand has a different suction technology, Lelo for example, uses SONAR waves for deeper pleasure! While Sila focuses more on an oral sex sensation. Both are great ways to explore your pleasure, especially when you may be “burnt out” by your wand or bullet.